We sometimes don't realize the actual value of what we have until it disappears. Some people will never appreciate you, even when you're not around. Because of their conceit, they are blind to everything that does not yield instant benefits. They adore themselves so much that they have no place for anyone else. No matter how hard you work, how accommodating you are, how understanding you are, or how much you love them, they will never change.
They won't return the Favour because they are so consumed with loving themselves that they have no time for other people. They are self-directed with all of their time, attention, love, and affections. They captivate you and absorb the feelings of everyone around them, much like a gravitational pull.
THESE 5 SIGNALS INDICATE THAT THEY ARE UNDERTAKING YOU:
They deceive you and commit fraud.
They are characterized by dishonesty and breaking trust. They utilize you to fund one of their two lives. They don't value you; they just think about themselves. Everyone else is just a tool to be exploited and discarded in order to promote their own happiness. They lack the compassion to terminate a relationship before beginning a new one and the love to be sincere.
They are not givers; they are takers.
Both partners in a romantic relationship ought to be givers. They give of their space, love, resources, and time. A giver makes sure that everyone is happy and well-cared for. Conversely, a taker only receives; there is no reciprocation involved. Either their way or the highway, it seems. You need someone who values your uniqueness, needs, wants, and feelings; someone who gives rather than takes away from the relationship.
You have no bearing on their inner world since they are too preoccupied with their own lives and goals. Belittling remarks reveal a lack of respect, particularly when they come from an unstable emotional state. While lighthearted banter is OK in a relationship, hurtful remarks indicate that it's time to go on. Someone who values and loves you won't undermine you, especially not in public. However, a self-centered person will destroy you because that's just who they are.
Due to their enormous ego, they are unreliable in terms of offering assistance or being where they should be. It's not uncommon to forget important things or to miss important occasions. You have to have a trustworthy companion who is there for you during critical moments. Why can't they be there for you if you're there for them?
SELFISHNESS OVER RELIEF IN TEAMWORK
As a team, you will either succeed or fail together. Nothing can approach a black hole, also known as a singularity, without being destroyed. Self-centered people are unable to see others thrive, not even their significant others, and depend on their own triumphs to support their brittle egos. Even if your partner won't get personal glory from the team's success, you still need them to be pushing in the same direction and exerting effort.
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